What makes a women sexy?

Our world is obsessed with appearances, and it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that sexiness is defined by our size, weight, or conventional beauty standards. Yet, what truly makes someone sexy goes beyond these superficial measures. It’s about attitude, self-acceptance, curiosity, and courage. We can be a glowing aura of confidence that inspires those around us. We can choose how we see sexiness. As I was thinking about this on my Uber ride to a meeting, I decided to write about it.

I’ve encountered many women who embody this essence of sexiness. They have an incredible ability to embrace themselves wholly and unapologetically. Their presence fills a room with energy and strength, creating powerful body-positive images that proudly declare “This is me; take it or leave it. It doesn’t bother me.”

Sexy women remove the pressure to conform and instead celebrate individuality through self-love. Clothing doesn’t simply hang on them; it becomes an extension of their identity, a testament to their unique style and confidence. Their presence commands attention not just because of what they wear but how they wear it — with poise, assurance, and an undeniable charisma that captivates all who observe them.

When they speak, it’s with a conviction that resonates leaving a lasting impression. Their words are not mere sounds; they are powerful expressions of thought and belief articulated with passion, opinion, clarity and compassion. Yet they remain open to your perspective. They are unafraid to share their voice in any setting — whether in a board room full of strangers or an intimate circle of friends, their speech echoes with authenticity and courage, inspiring those around them to find their own voices too.

For me, sexiness is about freedom — the freedom to wear what you please without fear of judgement — to prioritise self-care and humour in your life — and having the courage to voice opinions confidently. This all-encompassing approach means knowing what you want from life and never compromising on personal values.

Sexually, it’s about exploring intimate experiences and embarking on life’s adventures with an open heart — these individuals make no apologies for their desires. They understand that true sexiness lies in owning their space in the world. If you want to be part of that, you’re welcome; if not, the door is on the left. They hold no grudges because they respect that we all have choices. They stand tall, shoulders back, embracing their exquisite uniqueness.

Dear women on Fet, let the world be your oyster because when you hold yourself with such poise and assurance — there’s nothing more irresistibly sexy than that! My thought for the day: time to get sexy!